If you lead your whore to water, she’ll let you make her drink

Excuse me? Who mentioned dehumanization against ones free will besides you? Playing in a manner depicted here is best left to people who fully respect one another and are physically excited in regards to the power exchange and the roles they are playing within that dynamic.  It’s certainly not for everyone, but it’s also certainly an option for men and women who believe in and practice romance.  Thanks for your constructive criticism.  Have a great day.